Wednesday, December 12, 2012

BETTER LIVING THROUH DENIAL

I CAME ACROSS THIS EXPRESSION WHILE SEARCHING FOR AN IMAGE CLIP.
IT CAUGHT MY EYE BECAUSE THE TRUTH WAS EXPRESSED IN FOUR LITTLE WORDS.  "BETTER LIVING THROUGH DENIAL"


LITTLE CHILDREN WILL QUICKLY DENY THE OBJECT WAS BROKEN BY THEM. NO ONE IN THE HOUSE,  OTHER THAN THE TWO PEOPLE. ONE LITTLE ONE AND ONE ADULT, YET THE CHILD STATES NO KNOWLEDGE OF HOW THE OBJECT BROKE. WELL, THERE IS ALWAYS THE FAMILY PET. ALTHOUGH, I CAN'T FIGURE OUT HOW A GOLD FISH COULD HAVE DONE IT. H'M, MAYBE THE FAST SWIMMING IN THE FISH BOWL CAUSED VIBRATIONS TO KNOCK IT OFF THE TABLE. YES THAT IS IT!

THE PROCESS OF DENIAL, I CAN ONLY GUESS ,IS NOT WANTING TO BE PUNISHED FOR SOMETHING DONE WRONG.
FOR A CHILD, I BELIEVE IT IS UNDERSTANDABLE .
IN A CHILD'S EYES , IT IS THE FEAR OF PUNISHMENT .
IF THE TRAIT IS CARRIED OVER FROM TEENAGE YEARS TO ADULT, IT WILL BECOME AN ISSUE OF CONCERN.
DENIAL OF WRONG DOING WILL ALWAYS, IN ANY RELATIONSHIP,
BECOME THE OTHER PERSON CAUSING THE PROBLEM.

                                                                            
BETTER LIVING THROUGH DENIAL WILL BECOME THEIR MANTRA.
BETTER LIVING THROUGH DENIAL WILL JUSTIFY WHATEVER
HAPPENS TO THEM BECAUSE IT IS SOMEONE ELSE CREATING THE PROBLEM.
                                                              

HERE IS A QUESTION: WHAT DO DEPRESSION AND ALCOHOLISM HAVE IN COMMON?
ALCOHOLISM IS THAT THE PERSON BELIEVES THAT THERE IS UNJUST PICKING ON THEM AND WILL TURN THE TABLES AROUND IN A CONFRONTATION ABOUT THEIR DRINKING. THE PERSON QUESTIONING THE ALCOHOLIC WILL BECOME THE ONE WHO IS STARTING THE PROBLEM.

DEPRESSION IS  THAT THE PERSON BELIEVES THERE IS NO HOPE AND WHEN A PROBLEM OCCURS ALMOST  DOES THE SAME SCENARIO OF AN ALCOHOLIC  TURNING THE TABLES AROUND DURING A CONFRONTATION OF WHY AREN'T YOU DOING... .
TO ME, DEPRESSION IS AN ALCOHOLIC TURNED INSIDE OUT.
THE REAL DIFFERENCE IS A DEPRESSED PERSON WANTS HELP.
THE ALCOHOLIC CAN NOT ACCEPT HELP BECAUSE THERE IS NO PROBLEM.

 I HAVE EXPERIENCED DEPRESSION AND I HAVE LIVED WITH AN ALCOHOLIC.
 I GUESS ,YOU CAN SAY I CAN WRITE THIS WITH KNOWLEDGE TO BACK UP
MY WRITING THIS BLOG. WELL, AT LEAST THIS IS MY OPINION OF HOW I SEE IT.

IS IT REALLY " BETTER LIVING THROUGH DENIAL?"  THE ANSWER WILL HAVE TWO REPLIES, I BELEIVE IF ASKED.
THE ONE LIVING IN DENIAL WILL REPLY:
 WHY IS IT EASIER TO FIND A FALL GUY OR DIRECT ATTENTION PERSON TO FOCUS ATTENTION TO ONESELF?" 
THE OTHER PERSON  TRYING TO HELP
WILL REPLY:
"WHY WILL YOU NOT ANSWER HONESTLY MY QUESTION?"

HUMANS LIVING IN THE SAME WORLD ON DIFFERENT PLANES OF REALITY.
NOW  I  CAN NOT HELP BUT WONDER WHO POSTED THAT IMAGE ON GOOGLE? "BETTER LIVING THROUGH DENIAL"?
DOES IT HAVE DEEPER MEANING THAN I CAN SEE OR UNDERSTAND?
OR DOES POSTING IT VALIDATE IN THEIR MINDS
THE RIGHT TO BE LIVING THROUGH DENIAL?

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